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What makes you different?

Last Updated: 17.06.2025 15:12

What makes you different?

Not because people show it off and you have to follow the lead.

Do anything and everything because you like it. You love it. Do the things that make you go crazy. Things you’d barter your breath for. Things that make your life a rainbow.

So, keep on experimenting.

I’m 26 years old and a married woman. My husband hates my flat chest. What is the permanent solution?

Being different is being a mess, yet being okay with it.

All of it would have been different, and this life would mean something, at least for him.

You know how all of this enlightenment came to me.

Why does Islam give a bad vibe?

Agree?

Take my word. You won’t regret it.

Don’t go to the gym because it’s a fitness fad.

What is the happy reality of our generation?

What makes you YOU.

Tried everything. A well-paying corporate job, govt. exams. Nothing provided me with security. I didn’t have time to myself. Hustling was my name. Didn’t go to parties, travel or anything. Didn’t talk to friends.

Until the day I choose to listen to myself. I let my subconscious go wherever it wanted me to go. It was not just in dreams I wanted to live, but in real life. Not allowing others to cloud my personality, my ability, my inclination towards philosophy, knack to motivate others, and my indifference towards others’ opinions.

Why do people believe that global warming is man made?

I am an ordinary human being with the same body structure as you who are reading, you and I have the same material of what our bodies and brains are made up of.

A govt. job could do it for me. Plus Money, plus security, plus prestige.

Don’t get a partner because you’re jealous of your friends.

Was there a British ‘genocide’ of Aboriginal Australians?

P.S. What’s your idea of being different? Do you have a different point of view?

Without experiments, is life worth it.

Experiments: My life has been a group of experiments that failed to take off until I resorted to writing.

What is the nastiest thing you had your wife do and she loved it?

C’mon, it’s an opportunity to break the rules, stand out and become ONE of a kind.

"Be yourself; everyone else is already taken." - Oscar Wilde

To take out these experiments, accept the asymmetry of your emotions, your eccentricities, aspirations and thoughts for what they actually are. Instead of filtering it through the social system, recognize the difference and apply it in your life.

LeBron James’ message for Caitlin Clark after dominant return from injury - New York Post

Don’t drink because everybody does today.

Indeed, a number of other factors contribute to your uniqueness, but that’s for you to introspect.

I experimented. A lot. And now I know I don't need more trials of this kind. I’m writing this today at just the right place from the comfort of my home while it rains outside. While a cold breeze rings music to my senses.

What is the rudest/meanest thing a family member has said to you?

Even if that means disappointing your parents and teachers for some time, but believe you’ll eventually make them feel proud.

Not ignoring emotions because they can be destructive. Not underestimating your aspirations because society calls them second-rate.

So, what actually makes us all different?

Why do people think Justin Bieber is worse than Joseph Stalin?

Honestly, there’s nothing that makes ‘me’ different.

What if he’d come outside?

Otherwise, thank you for reading. It was fun writing to you all. Hope it helped you in more ways than one.

Why is the US going after Canada after all? What is the reason for all this hostility?

Yes, I was not at all happy.

He would have experienced the miracle called light. Maybe he got better food to eat. Then he got wounded. Then in search of balm, he travaled to the wilderness and found a party of rats, eaten to its heart’s content and danced the night out.

Long story short, here I am. Being a writer. Doing things I’d always love to do. Sharing my experiences of what I learnt.

Why did Britain steal Gibraltar from Spain?

Don’t choose to be an engineer just because it pays well.

Consider a rat who never came out of the hole fearing for his life. He stayed in the dark for years and died one day, unbeknownst.

I always yearned to go for government jobs because I had a few relatives already into it and doing well with money and security. And here is me, with an arts background, uncertain about what to choose.

How do you like to be pegged?

Can you make it?

Experiences: What has happened to me? Have I led a normal life with two parents and two siblings? Yes. Breakups I’ve had. Friends I’ve made. School I have attended. Guides I’ve met. Places I’ve been.

“The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.” - Lao Tzu

What is the difference between Michael Corleone’s marriage to Apollonia Vitelli and Kay Adams?

I have always wanted to write things. Wrote poetry during my grad and reluctantly left it for preparation of a govt. exam because who’s got extra time for it.

"Life is a journey, not a destination. Enjoy the ride." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

You can be fearful and still use it to tame your weaknesses and build your emotional strength.

My marriage is fixed. My future husband repeatedly calls me to meet me in private and pressure me to have a relationship. What should I do?

Being different is being okay with failure, so you know what the dessert of a win tastes like.

I know being a writer is no different. But my journey is different. Its unique to me.

Anxious to get a job, I chose to do what was socially recommended for me. So, I tried. Being a govt. servant. Failed. A Research Scholar. Didn’t make it. A Professor. Guess what?

Does the pro-choice movement realise that all the money used to subside abortions can be used to subsidize daycare and other financial support for single mothers with unplanned pregnancies?

Become different not according to the world, but according to what you like and what you don’t.

Everything has shaped me. Friends who gave me their pens and journals. Best friends I never made. Crush that made me write poems while he didn’t care. Romances I’ve missed. Opportunity to become an editor or a news correspondent I missed. I think all this has made me the writer I am.

Neither I’m Tesla, who got poor grades in school, nor I’ve grown to invent electric current that powers many electronic devices today. Nor I’m an entrepreneur who is the idea behind the Tesla cars.

Being different is being a weirdo. And being okay about it.

If you’ve read this far, let me tell you one more thing.